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 - Please help me with phonetic spellings (pronunciations) of names - and the way you each want to be addressed during the ceremony.
- Different elements of your wedding can be arranged in almost any order. Likewise, most are optional. Common sense and personal preference should prevail.
- I won't use the formerly traditional question: "If anyone knows any reason why this couple should not be joined together in marriage, let him speak now or forever hold his peace."
- If you desire religious or spiritual elements, or traditions with religious implications, I need to discuss these with you. Please be sure that you and I agree well in advance of your wedding.
- If you are planning a Renewal of Vows, Fiftieth Anniversary, or other ceremony instead of a licensed wedding, I'll happily suggest features appropriate to such an occasion.
- I don't read from a text. Therefore I reserve the right to be a bit extemporaneous in the final result. I'll maintain casual elegance and always be personable.
- Brides - practice lifting floor length gowns from your feet so that this can be done comfortably when using stairs and when turning.
- Walk slowly and naturally. Relax, stay loose, be reasonably flexible. Allow your focus to be upon your feelings and on one another. Be yourselves first. Everything else follows.
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